See Part I here.
My father, in his infinite wisdom:
“You know, the character you want in a boyfriend is a bit like mine. You’re kind of like Mom, and if the both of you were like that, the marriage wouldn’t last long.”
Thanks for jumping directly to marriage, Dad!
(Also, for a long time, one of my great fears has been turning out like my mother. I don’t know how like her I actually am, given his comments….)